I’ve never really taken new year resolutions seriously, it just seems like a great way to beat myself up over failing to stick with something for the first month of the year. But I think I wanna try to do something like resolutions anyway. I don’t know of a better name, but let’s go!

I want to hold a much better and healthier sleep schedule in order to better manage my health and disabilities.

I want to start on another game project. Heartgirl is fun and my baby, but I’m really burnt out on it. I need to do something else.

I really want to move forward on facial hair removal again as well as some body hair removal. I also want to start getting professional haircuts with some regularity. Keep a nice light bob.

I want another tattoo finally!

I want to continue making community through local queer and trans events.

I will be radically open with my feelings for my partners. No more being scared to say I’m in love with someone. I’m pushing 40 for goshsake. I don’t have time left to fuck around.

I’m going to set better boundaries in my relationships regarding lack of communication from my partners and mistreatment from my partners. I’m not going to let myself end up in a situation again where I’m chasing after and trying to make happy someone who thinks it’s okay to regularly ignore me as punishment for crimes she won’t tell me I committed. I’m far too valuable to be treated that way and I will not tolerate it from anyone ever again.

I will spend my attention more on people who pay attention to me and I will not dedicate so much time, attention, and emotional energy to people who mistreat me and do not pay attention to me.

Happy New Year!, and I wish all of you good health; safe, healthy, and happy relationships; and peace and quiet! 💕